Hello Magic. You've had some good advice here but I'd like to ad a couple of things. I start horses and quite a few come here thinking that they are 'numero uno' because they have been 'taught' that they are by their well meaning owners.
I make a point with these sort of horses, at feeding time, to go into their yard, put their feed in their bin and then keep them away from it until they give me both eyes in a respectful way. I then give them a stroke on the forehead and walk out and let them have their feed.
Yes, quite often I have to get a bit 'strong' but it pays huge dividends in the general demeanor and attitude of the horse towards me in general and not just at feed time. I have shown the horsethat I am someone to be reckoned with and not just pushed aside.
Now I wouldn't try this in a normal horse box with a horse such as yours that turns its rear and lifts a leg as it is too cramped to be safe. And I don't advise you to do it anyway if you are not confident that you will be able to 'defend' the feed bin until you get the respectful two eyes, but this is something to think about.
As for brushing, rugging or anything else while the horse is eating, I like to let the horse eat in peace and not use this as a 'sneak' period where the horse is preoccupied with his feed and therefore may let you do stuff that otherwise may be more difficult.
You mentioned tieing up and said that because your horse leads/yields well you are half way there. You are indeed correct, probably more than half way. Until a horse leads with the softest invitation and stands quietly when asked, he is certainly not ready to be tied. If you are interested, go to my website (
www.chilcotin.com.au) and under "Tips 'n Tricks" I have posted an article on tieing up.
cheers,
Grant Walske
"Towards Partnership with the horse"