honestly sparkie, i do understand what you are saying, and it is true.
i have a wonderful relationship with my boy, but the "getting married" on the float thing, i just have no idea how to even try to sort that out.
this is the ground work, and as you can see, he is very respectful, and understands our communication.
just click on the image.

if you have any ideas on how to overcome the partnership in the float, i would dearly love to know. all input is welcome
cheers