Just want peoples opinions on something.If i'm riding my mare,she'll be the biggest bi%$^ and ignore what im asking her. BUT if I am holding my dressage whip, she is alot better and responsive. I'm not sure whether to start permanentley using it, as I feel the only reason she is responding to it, is because shes scared of it... what do you stockies think?? Cheers. Kateee.